what is love?
March 18, 2004
This is a rant... but anyway, I can't stand people who tell others how love is supposed to feel like or what love is. What the? I mean sure, some people throw those "I love you"'s around when its just a crush or whatever, but so what? Its none of anyone else's business. If they feel like saying I love you, then more power to them. Why would you even go and tell others that they're not really in love like you are? And that they have to do certain things so they can really prove that they're in love? Or that some things make your love stronger?!? What?! Shut the fuck up, please. You're annoying.

Yeah, I write in here about Steph, and I write about how in love I am, but I have never said anything about how my love is so much stronger than someone else's is. No. I can't. I don't want to. Who am I to say what someone's feeling? And tell them how love is like? Sure, love is a feeling, and we're all able to feel it, but everyone probably "defines" it in their own way, because not everyone feels the same when they're in love. And no, just because two other people in love wouldn't do something for their significant other like I would for Steph, I wouldn't tell them that they're "less" in love than I am with my girlfriend. Because I'm not expecting everyone to feel the same way as I do only because they're in love too.

And then there's the whole "teenagers can't fall in love" bullshit that bugs the shit out of me. Seriously, what the heck? Everyone can fall in love: young, old, whoever. Its simple, really. Love isn't an emotion that you can only feel towards someone when you hit 20 or 30 or 40 years old. It can be felt at any age. Sure, some teenagers misinterpretate love and infactuation but it doesn't mean it can never happen at a young age, and plus, not only teenagers misinterpretate that anyway. But the bottom line: Love is a human emotion. Teenagers are human, therefore, they can fall in love.

So please quit telling everyone what love is and what it isn't or "defining" it for us. It isn't going to make you sound like you're more in love than other people only because you're telling us what love is, because you can never "define" love for everyone.

So yeah: What is love? Its just two people's business (aka their feelings, emotions etc..) and not anyone else's. That's what it really is.

I'm done.

Thank you.


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